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Boyfriends, Girlfriends and beloved pet hamsters are all logisitical issues to me. When it comes to logistics, all I have to do is IRON THEM OUT. One can look at it from a micro perspective, where you decide on what to say to engage this topic. But consider my macro point-of-view.

My definition of logistics is “anything that a girl needs to know that I know so that I won’t make a mistake and screw things up for her.”

If she has a boyfriend, there are 2 things that can happen. 1, she will buzz me off. 2, she will want to experience what a relationship with me will be like. She probably won’t say this so all you have to do is to show that I am AWARE of her situation, that I ACCEPT the current situation and that I HAVE A PLAN TO LEAD HER TOWARDS a future with her.

There are many ways to say it but I usually say something honest and simple, along the lines of :

Girl : I have a boyfriend.

hide : Not the scenario I was hoping for, but I could work with that. So anyway, Jason Mraz is coming to town, I bet you $17 that he’s gonna wear a hat.

Logistics, they are the COMMANDOS of the anti-dating world. They can foil even the most solid relationships. Bite them before they bite you!

I can certainly see why you’re confused! I am too. I was reading this thinking to myself “wow this is going well… or… maybe not…?” I never understood why kissing is so personal. That’s odd to me. I do blame her for giving mixed signals by talking about sex right away, then laying in your bed… what did she think was going to happen? If you don’t want to fuck don’t be laying up in a man’s bed and talking about sex before that! That’s just common sense. She’s going to be another one of those with the struggle for control.